My wife had a family emergency last week. So, she was in Florida for a week. I held down the fort for a while with my son and I.
When my wife comes back from Florida, I make things easier for her by doing some stuff around the house. I cooked, I cleaned, I pampered her.
Pile of Laundry
Well yesterday (Sunday) I asked her to do one simple thing for me. I asked her to go around the house and find my son’s school clothes because I’m having trouble finding them. She says “Ok honey. I’ll look for them.”
Well it’s Monday (Columbus Day) and my son’s school clothes are nowhere to be found.
I asked her to just do one thing. That was it. Simple. Now there is school tomorrow for my son and I have a pile of clothes to wash but none of his school clothes are in the laundry.
WTF?? Can you just do one thing? I haven’t asked you do anything for a while and when I ask for a simple task, you can’t do it.
Yesterday, I cleaned, cooked, and took care of everything while my wife sat on her ass and played games on Facebook all day.
Pretty annoying and unfair.
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#1 by birdman on October 30, 2009 - 11:39 am
“”Yesterday, I cleaned, cooked, and took care of everything while my wife sat on her ass and played games on Facebook all day.”"
let me guess …..FARMTOWN??
my wife cant figure out how to use a computer to find out where a tornado is when warnings are sounded but she can just about beat farmtown on facebook.biggest waste of fuckin time!!theres REAL cloths that needs washed,REAL food that needs cookied and a ton of other REAL things that always needs tended to but she too busy picking fake fruit from fake trees so they dont go bad!!!! WTF?
#2 by mike on November 1, 2009 - 6:18 pm
Why are you cooking and cleaning? Don’t you work outside the home. If you both work outside the home then you should share the work at home, if not then the one at home should do the house work. Stop your bitching…if you want something done right then do it yourself.
#3 by AlphaOmega on November 18, 2009 - 12:14 pm
My GF who has 3 kids with someone else went from being productive and in touch with her kids to being a lazy, slob, nasty, foul mouthed, unemployed waste who does nothing but play 2nd Life on the computer I bought for her. Everything in the house is dirty, cheap and broken like our relationship. The other day she was having cyber sex in the living room and all of her kids could hear it. Naturally, her kids have no respect for me and since they have no rules thanks to their mom, it is beyond my abilities to do anything about it. Now I have to get money together in order to get out of this nut house and start over yet again…
You are not alone!
#4 by KillMePlease on November 21, 2009 - 10:28 pm
You and I both, brother. How the hell do they figure Facebook is more important than real life? Let me tell you a short story, if you’ll indulge me.
My wife and I are both avid wannabe-chefs. After our wedding, on our first day at home as a married couple, we went shopping for groceries to make our first dinner together as husband and wife. This was particularly noteworthy because we’d never lived together before we were married. Throughout the shopping trip we spoke about how marvellous it would be to make our first meal as a married couple, and how we’d enjoy cooking together that night in what was now “our” home, and what a milestone event it was. How quickly those sentiments were forgotten…
After unpacking the groceries, she proceeded upstairs to (presumably) get ready for making dinner. After about twenty minutes I got impatient and started the prep work. Roughly an hour later, I had all the prep done and went upstairs to hurry her up. “It’s all set, we can start cooking anytime you’re ready,” I called out to her. She replied, “Sounds great.” Nothing further. So I went back to the kitchen, expecting her to follow me.
I started cooking the food after waiting another 30 minutes without her showing up. By this time I was starving and dinner was over two hours late for all the waiting. Once everything was plated and on the table, I called up to her, “Dinner’s ready, if you have the time!”
She came downstairs bewildered at the way I’d announced dinner. I said, “I waited as long as I could, but since you showed no signs of being ready to cook, I went ahead without you. So much for making our first meal as a married couple!” Jaw agape, she replied, “I though you were going to cook for me tonight! Why didn’t you say something earlier?!?” Grrr…
It turns out that while I’d been waiting for her, she’d been spending the entire time on Facebook posting photos and comments about our wedding (to brag about how she was now married) and lost track of time!! She had no interest whatsoever in BEING married, the only thing she wanted was to GET married!!
And hence it started, a life that soon proved to me that I’m nothing to her but a source of a ring and a baby. I’ve thus spent the rest of our (likely-to-be-short) marriage competing with Facebook for her time. And losing.
Fuck Facebook.
#5 by The Old Ball and Chain on December 12, 2009 - 10:42 am
I am so glad I’m not the only husband in this situation. I’ve been with my wife for six years dating and we just recently (6 mo. ago) got married. She seems like a completely different person now. She used to be well organized and a hard worker. Now she bitches and complains about every little thing and doesn’t do a damn thing herself.
I feel your pain on the facebook thing…if I’m working around the house or doing homework she will get on facebook and never get off for the rest of the night and then bitch and moan that I don’t spend any time with her. She can’t stay off of her damn computer long enough to sit and watch a movie with me.
I’m in this thing for the long haul but she is driving me f***ing nuts!
#6 by Matt on December 15, 2009 - 10:58 am
Why are you in it for the long haul? I think as men we tend to put too much into being “men” and doing what we have to. Well guess what men, time to take care of ourselves for a change. I’m not saying rush out and bang 15 chicks like tiger but I am saying don’t take the shit. I stop my wife as soon as a discussion progresses to a bitch and walk out. I simply won’t put up with it anymore and she’s starting to figure that out. I have a wonderful little daughter and I’ll be damned if she grows up to think men are for taking advantage of. If a man and wife work as a team then they can’t go wrong, when either strays from that dedication then you are doomed.
#7 by poopypoopyhead1 on March 1, 2010 - 3:56 pm
you sound like my wife, Bitch. No offense.